Friday, August 15, 2014

When You Can't Say Goodbye...

It's happened again.

The phone rang and it was Compassion on the other end. I have found from experience that this is rarely a good thing. More often than not, they have news about one of our sponsored children and usually it's not good news.

A couple months ago I received a letter from Compassion informing us that the money designated for Ayon, one of our boys in East India, was being suspended because there was an issue with the local church. The letter was positive and hopeful that the issue would be resolved quickly and soon funding would continue.

I sure hoped they would because I couldn't stand the thought of losing Ayon - he's one of my favorites. (Can we have favorite sponsored children?) Ayon started out as a correspondent child, but when his financial sponsor backed out, we took him on.

And for the past six years we have had the honor and privilege of developing a relationship with this boy on the other side of the world. In six years we received 63 letters (!!), and his letters always stood out from the others because of the doodles and artwork.




Anyway, it turns out the local church that was hosting the Compassion project decided to discontinue their relationship with Compassion. Because Compassion is no longer working through this church, there is no opportunity for us to say goodbye.

(Wait a second while I wipe away my tears.)

And so I pray. I pray that the words I have written over the past six years will point him to God. I pray that he will remember the messages of love and life and hope that we have sent him. And I pray that he is strongly rooted in Christ because of Compassion, and that he will continue to mature and grow in his relationship with God.

Ayon....we will never forget you and the light you brought into our lives. I will forever remember you as my tall, skinny, child from India who always held his arms straight down for photos....

Would you join me in praying a blessing over Ayon and his life?

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Awww... So sad! Praying for him and for your family. And yes, we can have favourites when it comes to sponsor kids! :)
Oh, that is too bad. :( I'm surprised there isn't some sort of procedure for 'closing out' a Compassion site that allows children and sponsors to say goodbye.
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I think it depends on the situation and who is initiating the break. In this case, the church chose to sever ties with Compassion due to their interpretation of a law about receiving funds from outside sources.
It is too bad you didn't even get to say goodbye.
Ugh, we have gone through this several times as sponsors and it is always SO hard! Hugs to you, friend, and prayers for Ayon. Great drawings.
I'm so sorry to hear that Ayon's project closed down. One of my boys in India just had his project go onto probation because the money was not being used according to Compassion's standards. They have until November to fix the problems or they will close down.
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Praying right now that they get it all sorted out!

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Praying for you and for Ayon. My mom has a child whose center is on probation (for the second time in three years) and I got a letter last week saying our newest sponsor daughter's center is also on probation. In that instance, it's especially frustrating because we've only had her for a month, and apparently her center has been on probation for two months. It would be so nice if Ayon was able to attend a different center nearby- I know that if he is ever registered again, Compassion will contact you to see if you want to continue the sponsorship!
I will be praying for your family and Ayon. I agree that phone calls from Compassion are usually not great news. I love his artwork! Wow!
That's sad that his church decided to discontinue the partnership. And that you can't say goodbye. Those are always the hardest. But how encouraging to know that God loves our kids more than we do and we can still pray!
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine losing one of my kids and not even being able to write them a goodbye letter. Praying his family don't choose to be bitter towards God or the church.

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